You’ll probably have to dig deep to find courage to end your relationship with a narcissist, and when you do break free from the emotional chains that kept you there, you will know you are stronger than you ever imagined. Remember that feeling, and the lessons you learned so you can recognize real love when you find it.
After the darkness, here are some basic guidelines to help you recognize what a real, loving relationship should feel like.
- Seeing the real you.
Instead of feeling worthless, your real love will value you, know your worth, see you passion and have faith in you which, in turn, will help you to believe in yourself.
- Treating you as you deserve
Your real love won’t bring you down, instead they will treat you with respect and appreciate you and all you do. They will give you the love and attention you deserve.
- Being trustworthy.
Your real love will understand that the hurt from your past will make it difficult for you to trust and will be patient and willing to give you time to see that they are genuine and trustworthy.
- No playing mind games
Your real love won’t mess with your mind and heart, unlike the narcissist that thrived on making you miserable. With a loving relationship you will realize you have found someone willing to help you heal and not crush your soul.
- Giving you what you need
Your real love will give you the love you deserve. They want you to be happy and will go to great lengths to do so.
- Listening to you.
Unlike the narcissist who didn’t give a damn about your thoughts or feelings, your real love will listen to everything you say, give you a shoulder to cry on when you’re sad, celebrate with you when the occasion arises and help you overcome difficult times.
- Apologizing for their mistakes
You may recall that your previous partner only ever apologized when they wanted something from you, expertly tucking ‘blameworthy’ items away for future use. Your new love is quite the opposite and will apologize for their mistakes and admit when they’ve done something wrong.
- Showing the meaning of true love.
Your real love will show you with compassion and tenderness what true love really is and when you’re finally ready to open your heart, you’ll experience the true feeling of being loved.
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